So Why Isn’t Everyday Life Like an Episode of “Survivor”?

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We recently discussed the concepts of things like “The Selfish Gene” and “Survival of the Fittest,” and our general consensus is that human beings as creatures aren’t very nice. Our “natural” behaviors don’t lend themselves to ethical practices. So this leads us to the question, “Why don’t we live like a bunch of animals?” How is is that we aren’t eating, sleeping, and screwing ourselves to death??? That is what survival of the fittest is all about – eat, sleep, and do your very best to make as many genetic copies of yourself as possible – right? Well, that’s true, but human beings aren’t the best survivors when we are on our on… ever watched Naked and Afraid?

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We don’t do very well when exposed to the elements, and we do exceptionally poorly when we are alone. So how do we reconcile the need to “be the fittest” and dominate those around us, thereby, satisfying our biological and evolutionary need to reproduce with the necessity of cohabiting with others and creating a functioning community which ensures the survival of ourselves and others?

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This is where ethics comes in. Without ethical practices and behaviors, evolutionary/biologically driven behaviors would wreck our own survival… i.e. we would be shady/crappy human beings and find ourselves alone and without the benefit of a community to help ensure our survival.

As a species, our need for community generally overrides our biological need to be “top dog.” There are definitely scum bags and crappy people who capitalize on the species’s need for community. These individuals will take advantage and engage in unethical behaviors for the immediate benefits they think they are achieving; however, as we’ve discussed, there is a series of rewards and consequences that we as a society implement on these individuals.

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I hope as we move through the semester, you will begin to see the importance of ethical behaviors for yourself personally and for society as a whole. It’s going to be messy and thought provoking. I will never apologize for making your think about something in a new way, especially if we’ve teased out of of an emotional response an into a philosophical or logical response.

Welcome to Ethics!!

Ethics – Just the Basics, Please

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Sooooo, you’ve found yourself in an ethics class, and you’re not really sure what to do with it.

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Why should you care about ethics in the first place?

Interestingly, that question will be the easiest one we tackle all semester. You should care about ethics because living an ethical life will ultimately lead to a better life for you and the people you care about.

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We’ve discussed the idea of Should and Ought and how those terms outweigh ideas like “good” and “bad.” They give us a little more to work with. For example, something you consider “bad” is something you should work to avoid… something you consider “evil” is something you should REALLY work to avoid.

Let’s look at the statement “Life isn’t fair.” You hear people justify their

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unjust actions all the time with this overused and cliched phrase. Most of the time, they are using it to make themselves feel better because they have just behaved in an “unfair” manner. Just because life is unfair doesn’t mean it should always be that way. If we can work toward living ethical lives, we can eliminate some of those “unfair” instances by doing what we ought to do.

So, the next question is the difference in law and morality/ethics. Is there a difference? Sure there is. While there is some overlap, murder for example is both illegal and unethical. Speeding is a little different. It is illegal, but not always unethical. Other examples that cross and/or blur lines are things like adultery (unethical but not illegal), slavery (was once legal but definitely unethical), lying (unethical but not usually illegal), and mutilation of female genitalia (legal under Sharia law but definitely unethical). There are countless examples, but you get the idea.

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We also discussed what the pay-offs are for living an ethical life, and you heard me say SEVERAL times that an ethical life isn’t about the short game. It’s all about the long game. The pay-offs aren’t what you get today, this week, or even this month. The pay-offs come incrementally over the course of weeks, months, and years. We listed several things in class, but the general consensus is that your life is just better in every way – less stress, more money, and better relationships. You may not be the life of the party, but your life definitely doesn’t suck.

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We went on to look at the two types on integrity – internal and external integrity. Both require a commitment and mindfulness. Internal integrity is the idea that your whole and complete because what you do isn’t in conflict with what you feel like you ought to be doing. External Integrity is different but linked. It is the commitment to living according to ethical principles – it’s putting your thoughts and “ought to’s” into practice to makes sure that your internal integrity stays solid. It’s treating the janitor and the CEO with the same level of respect.

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So, we’re left with our three words – forbidden, permitted, and required. Those words are what we are going to us to tackle our most difficult ethical dilemmas. This helps us avoid judgemental phrasing and remove the emotional attachments that many people use to cloud their arguments. The goal is to build your moral arguments around evidence and sound ethical theory. This might make you uncomfortable or even question some positions you’ve always held because you find they were based solely on emotion and not evidence, theory, or a sound argument. I hope you’re ready to deal with some hard truths about life, ethics, and maybe even yourselves. Let’s get to it!

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